The response from the other party was positive and I'm quite pleased with that--I'm really looking forward to this commencing, because I know she'll have a good time and get some of what she needs...and I'll get to hear all about it.

However, I was chatting with this person--I shall call him The Muppet--and my stomach decided not to like this so far. We were starting to negotiate out stuff last night and I didn't like his attitude. I think a lot of that--the attitude--was/is because he doesn't/didn't grasp our relationship. He's kinky--or at least runs in the same kinky circles and events as us--so it shouldn't be something completely foreign. I'm not sure he gets that he is playing by MY rules. Not his, not the girl's, and certainly not by any rules that were present last time they fucked. I am lending her out for her own benefit, not his. He's a nice guy and I, in general, like him, but he is, ultimately, a vessel. He will firstly play within the guidelines I set and secondly within the preferences and such that the girl expresses. Otherwise, I will pull the plug and it won't happen this time around them nice big natural tits. I'm already pulling back two things I thought might be okay--no hairpulling, since she hits headspace really fast with that and he is not getting any of that, and he isn't staying the night.